A man is going to be who he is, no matter what you bring to him. You can be beautiful, solid, have your own, carry yourself right and still end up dealing with somebody who just not built to handle you. You can’t love a man into acting right or upgrade his mindset by being a better woman.
I wanna experience a man loving me so much, that hurting me is unfathomable to him … even when we’re not seeing eye to eye. On our worst days, I’m still the apple of his eye.
I can’t stand a ngga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a…. man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like btches?
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
I can’t accept nobody saying hurtful shit to me out of rage at this point in my life. Speaking down on me or bringing back up a situation that was vulnerable for me or throwing anything up to use against me that I confided in you That’s the quickest way for me to act like a mf dead .
I NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR gave up on nobody I dealt with. I TALKED AND TALKED TO Them TO FIX CERTAIN THINGS and when it didn’t get fixed I LEFT simple ..Nobody is going to repeat THEMSELVES EVERYDAY nor are people going to wait forever to get what they DESERVE.. The most selfish and manipulative thought process a person can have is to think you can treat people any kind of way and expect them to be there( saying that’s love and loyalty), then when they leave you say they gave up on you ����. Naw you didn’t apply yourself, for what you thought you was ready for. Keep it a buck with yourself, if nothing else💯‼️I only COMPLAINED BECAUSE I CARED once I stop caring it’s over ‼️💯
Let him suffer with who he thought was better than you. Don’t beg,don’t compete, don’t try and prove yourself, if he looked at everything you brought to the table and still chose different, Let him experience that decision fully. Some men don’t understand value until they lose it
The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw y’all mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of y’all grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely don’t know what the man’s role is supposed to be and that’s why a lot of yall can’t fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas don’t even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao