updated bases for dating in 2022:
1st base: fucking raw
2nd base: kissing on the mouth outside of sex
3rd base: opening up to each other about your biggest life traumas and how they impacted you
4th base: hanging out in public in the daytime
Ive come to realize i gotta talk about the issues and come to a resolution instead of saying fuck it ill deal with it later. Itd keep me out of alot of unnecessary situations.
Love isn’t enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me. I need to know you won’t give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I can be the softest version of me.