I'm really a out of sight out of mind type of person. I can get over anything as long as I'm nowhere near it, ion hear from it & I don't have to see it.
Until you address me directly, you do not have an issue with me. You have an issue with yourself. I don’t respond to whispers, assumptions, side comments, or conversations held in rooms I’m not standing in. If it was serious enough to speak around me, it should be mature enough to bring to me. Until then, that is not conflict; that is avoidance wearing confidence.
I find it difficult to move on, not just from people but from phases of life, rooms I’ve lived in, foods I’ve obsessed over, series I’ve binged, anything that has made me happy over a period of time.
i think the deepest love language is someone learning your patterns. knowing you don't text back when you're sad. knowing you go quiet before you cry. nobody told them. they just paid attention.
Clearest sign that someone is undergoing the process that leads to psychological maturity is that they become more confrontational with those closest to them and less confrontational with strangers.
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.