I think most women who are homebodies are the girls who grew up on punishment for 6 months at a time or had such a dysfunctional family they stayed in their room majority of the time. As they became an adult it just became normal.
White Men are Cracking Up (1994) by Ngozi Onwurah is possibly my favourite short from her after The Body Beautiful. It explores the fetishisation and eroticization of Black women as a manifestation of white male insecurity. Theo Omambala, the woman you are.