Imagine being the type of person who plays devils advocate when someone is super excited about something. Being openly skeptical and throwing dirt on their fire. Or just more generally meeting positive energy with negative energy. Deep trauma. Best to avoid these types.
Most beautiful lesson life taught me is the entire world is rigged in your favor/for your enjoyment, but the moment you grow attached to any of it
You suffer
So you have to learn to enjoy it all while also being able to let it all go
When the call comes for something greater
As a man who has lived his adult life in romantic turmoil—an unsuccessful engagement before 24, nights spent revising unsent love letters before I’d edge to a crying voice note from the girl who stole my DuPont lighter, etc. I feel I’m qualified to speak on matters of the heart