personally kpop is the PERFECT interest for me it combines music and beautiful concepts and pretty people and visuals and fashion and reality content and there’s so many options to choose from and so much variety it’s awesome and i love being a fangirl
if you are not fond of idols that
- has tattoos
- chronically offline
- speaks his mind
- is not a lapdog
- private
- doesn’t like aegyo
- quiet
then nk is not for you. find another idol to stan. you don’t have to force yourself to stan him then complain once he did not meet your expectations.
If you…
•don’t like tattoos
•require dms every day
•hate respecting privacy and boundaries
•thinks you own an idol cause you spent a few dollars
•require constant attention
I suggest you pick a different idol than Nishimura Riki. He’s not the type to be your lap dog. He’s not your make belief boyfriend either.
He’s a free spirit that comes and goes as he pleases, and there are fans that like him exactly as he is. You don’t need to change him to fit your mold of what’s acceptable to be an idol. He’s not going to change for you despite all your nagging, so just go stan someone else and stop nitpicking at every single thing he does.
contrary to what many kpop stans believe, idols don’t live for you. they live for themselves, and every fan should live for themselves too. just because the majority of the kpop industry is built on parasocial blurred lines between idols and fans doesn’t mean that every idol wishes to live that way.
if you don’t like his ways, then don’t stan. It’s really that simple.
sometimes i feel like some k engenes are boomers coz WDYM YOU HATE PEOPLE GETTING TATTS IN THE BIG 2026??? oh well i hope nk get more tatts so y’all be more pissed and pressed stay mad
tbh i love this side of riki where he clearly shows his fans his discomfort and sets boundaries, always remaining very politely and respectful. and him not dming for 18 days is just a straight up lie. even if he did, he doesn't owe u shit so don't pmo ffs