Hello @PeterObi Please Sir! I beg you in the name of God, on behalf of all Nigerians. Declare your interest to become President of this country. It must not be through @OfficialPDPNig unless they have become wise.. I watched this video (https://t.co/4217Aun98P) and had to do this
At the age of 23/25, my wife and I were serving (NYSC).
I was not even sure of what would become of me after service.
But it took me 4 more years before I could marry her.
In the Western world, it's very common to see young men getting married at 25.
Why? Because they have a better economy and social benefits for children, etc. Most children go to public schools (primary and secondary), which are free. Health care is also provided in public hospitals for most people.
But here in Africa, and in Nigeria, the reverse is the case.
While we have public primary and secondary schools, most of them are not in good shape.
That is to show you how bad things have become.
Because I went to a public primary and secondary school, and the same applies to my wife.
In Nigeria today, most parents prefer to send their kids to private schools and also use private hospitals.
We don't have the basic social amenities or benefits that most people enjoy in the Western or more developed world.
So, in such a situation, is it advisable for a young man to get married at 24?
Is he mentally and financially prepared for the responsibilities?
Because whether you like it or not, once you're married, you must live up to your responsibilities, regardless of your age.
Which is why, even though I encourage early marriage, I still advise that 35 is not too late for you. You need a strong financial plan and buffer to be able to survive as a married man in a country like Nigeria.
Your fathers may have married at a much younger age, but we had a better country. Private schools were very scarce, and most of us went to public schools.
If our government is failing us, do not fail yourself by embarking on a journey of marriage when you're not prepared.
And if you decide to embark on it, please manage the responsibilities you take on.
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“When you are in your 20s, you don’t really care what people think about you. In your 30s and 40s, you start worrying about what others think. But when you get to 60 and above, you realize people were never really thinking about you in the first place. The young look forward, the elderly look back, and those in between are often stressed and confused. By the time you become wise enough to be careful with your steps, you are already too old to move freely. So, do what you need to do now.��
– Veteran actor Vitalis Ndubuisi
The Lagos-Calabar Coastal Highway is not just about building a road. It is raising deep accountability and governance concerns that cannot be ignored.
Beyond the headlines, several critical issues stand out:
- Unclear total project cost and limited public disclosure on procurement process.
- Demolitions and displacement of businesses and livelihoods with concerns around compensation.
- Environmental risks to coastal communities, wetlands, and long term climate impact.
- Phased commissioning that raises questions about political optics versus actual project completion.
- Uncertainty around project design, scope, and long term maintenance plan.
At Tracka, we have joined many well-meaning Nigerians in demanding answers. We submitted a Freedom of Information request to @FMWNIG through the office of the minister @DaveUmahi to seek clarity on these issues since March 2, yet no response has been received to date.
This lack of transparency weakens public trust and raises further concerns about how large-scale infrastructure projects are being managed.
Public projects of this magnitude must be open, accountable, and people-centred. Citizens deserve to know the true cost, the process, and the long-term impact.
We will continue to #followtheprojects and demand accountability because #publicfundsmustworkforthegoodofthepeople.
#askquestions
What the Artemis II astronauts did over the last 10 days was a testament to their bravery. And the fact that they traveled farther from Earth than anyone ever has, re-entered our atmosphere at more than 24,000 mph, and splashed down safely was a testament to human ingenuity. Thanks to everyone at @NASA for making this mission possible, and for taking us along for the ride.
VeryDarkMan, speaking on the Blord matter, stated that he never said he wouldn’t sue anyone who used his name for criminal activities. He also reminded Sowore that tomorrow is Easter, yet Blord is still in Kuje Prison.
1. FIRS generated 28.6 trillion in 2025.
2. Customs generated 7.2 trillion in 2025.
3. NPA generated 1.25 trillion in 2025.
4. NNPC generated 60.14 trillion in 2025.
5. Immigration generated 618 billion.
6. NDIC generated 453 billion in 2025.
7. Stamp duty revenue - 65 bn in 2025.
8. CBN treasury bills raised to cover budget deficit in 2025 - N15.4 trillion.
Oil subsidy removed, power subsidy removed.
No new teaching hospital built, now new university built, all federal roads are in a state of disrepair, insecurity continues to rise, agriculture sector dying due to imports, federal contractors havent been paid since 2024.
Yet Tinubu is asking to borrow another 6 billion dollars.
Are we jinxed or under a spell?
At 30, you are supposed to be clear about direction, values, and what you actually want to build.
A serious relationship leading to marriage requires alignment, not just attraction.
A 21 year old is still figuring herself out in most cases.
Different stage of life, different priorities, different level of emotional experience.
You might be thinking long term stability while she is still exploring options and identity.
That mismatch creates friction sooner or later.
Now here is the uncomfortable part most men avoid.
Are you choosing her because she is aligned with your future, or because she is easy, exciting, and makes you feel young again.
Be honest with yourself.
Because if it is the second one, you are not building, you are escaping.
There is nothing wrong with age difference by itself.
What matters is maturity, mindset, and readiness for commitment.
If she is not ready for the same level of responsibility, you will carry the weight alone.
And that gets exhausting fast.
A focused man does not just ask “do I like her.”
He asks “can we build something stable together.”
If the answer is unclear, that discomfort you feel is not random.
It is your awareness telling you something is off.
Ignoring it will not fix it.
You are 30 as a man,
You say you're looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage.
But you're dating a 21 year old girl.
You're not feeling alright.
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Been to South Africa three times
The first time I went, I met a lady who told me day one, “Don't tell anyone you are Nigerian”
I waved it off. After three days, I understood what she was saying.
South Africans don't like African migrants because they accuse them of taking their jobs and women. For Nigerians, however, the hate is visceral, special and forward
Foreigners living there are picking pennies in front of a steamroller