finally complete! more photos + video to follow. thank you very much @lvslies for writing a story that made me immediately go "i have to bind this", and for permission to do so ๐
@chanter3ll3@Maekammy recommend body glide, it goes on like deodorant and keeps you from chafing all day without needing shorts. shorts are fine too but itโs nice to have options
@mouIinmarius i don't know you but this tweet popped up and inspired me to check their website and now I'm going to see it tomorrow afternoon. had no idea they were even in my city
@24ho4u i was about to turn 25 when i got into my first relationship. no prior experience at all, just a kiss with someone at a party. weโre still together 4 years later, and hopefully many more. they were divorced, and id never dated. it works fine for us! i believe it can work for u โฅ๏ธ
@inherentsubtext in & out 1997 is a personal fave. it's a silly comedy (not romcom) and has some...muddled politics but it's a great time if you haven't seen it!
@rorschachisgay 100% with you on wired headphones but a gamechanger for me on wireless was multipoint bluetooth headphones, they let you connect to 2 devices at once so i can just switch bw my phone and laptop by pressing play on the other one. highly recommend
@jess_felts jessica, this is financial abuse. i hope you take this seriously; i want to encourage you to talk to someone, call a DV hotline, anything. they wonโt make you leave, but this is not normal, and you can have support from people who understand the situation youโre in
@postdeadlights i used to have something like this, and i found out itโs a known phenomenon where not being able to envision a future causes you to feel like youโre going to die before any future arrives. if it helps, this feeling eventually just kinda went away for me
@inherentsubtext iโd recommend ologies if youโre not already on top of that, or lingthusiasm (lighthearted linguistics topics), or maybe cautionary tales (what we can learn from failures/disasters) but that can be a bit dark sometimes due to the premise
@shi_copperpenny honestly imo those kinds of asymmetrical glasses usually read as trying too hard to be quirky (or to ensure other people Know that youre quirky), which might not be a read other people have of them! but personally i would go chunky/bright/unusual shape over asymmetrical ยฏ\_(ใ)_/
@boners i understand this feeling so completely, my dad died when i was young (10y/o) and i feel the most loss/grief when i think about what our relationship mightโve been as adultsโฆkeeping u in my thoughts today โฅ๏ธ