You're supposed to use every unfair advantage you have. Looks, genetics, connections, dad's money, whatever.
There's nothing noble about choosing the hardest path just to feel like an underdog.
If you’re going to be strict with men, stop telling them the consequences. See, this is where most ppl get it twisted. We think boundaries are about speeches, warnings, ultimatums. The more you explain, you invite negotiation & in that moment, you’ve already lost ground.
It is possible to see people (and their ill intentions) for who they are without taking their actions personally. Unlocking this mindset changed my life forever.
There’s absolutely nothing more pleasing than watching yourself do the things you said you’d do. I really value honoring the promises I’ve made to myself.
One advantage of being popular when you are "younger" is that you realise that there is nothing to it — and if you are lucky enough to fade back into obscurity, you realise that it should not be one of the drivers of your decisions
convinced that if you decided to write out how your perfect life would look every month (max 10 sentences) for a year
you would 7x your results and get rid of the feeling of missing out or being lost
all of our answers are always found in the simplest methods we overlook
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