Stephanie Fellows

I mostly tweet about books, shoes, books, plays, movies, shoes, books...well you get the idea.

[Cyndi..🌻🌹💙🩵🎶 @cyndiwanek]

Yes, absolutely 💯

[Devin Duke @sirDukeDevin]

If only!

[A✰ @Avazoey_]

This!!!

[Fav @Favwontmiss]

I read/saw something that for a lot of people with ADHD, the hyperactivity isn’t physical, it’s mental. People assume the little boy who can’t sit still has ADHD and ignore the little girl whose brain is constantly hopping around.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Autism: I like silence

ADHD: I like noise

AuDHD: I need silence but also background noise but not too loud but loud enough

[cinesthetic. @TheCinesthetic]

Boromir’s final stand in THE FELLOWSHIP OF THE RING (2001) remains one of fantasy cinema’s greatest death scenes. Every arrow that hits him only makes his determination more impressive, turning his final moments into the ultimate act of redemption.

[Madelaine Hanson @MadelaineLucyH]

The problem gentlemen is you think "rapist" means scary man in a hoodie lurking in an alleyway at 3am. Of course you'd block that guy.

But it's the boyfriend you really loved who was angry that you hadn't wanted sex for two days and pinned you for the bed and then felt really bad about it.

It's the really sweet guy backstage who you loved working with for the whole production who knew you only wanted to be friends and then got you drunk at the after party and raped you in a dressing room.

It's the husband who whined and pleaded for sex long after you've said no for hours and refused to take no for an answer until you gave in every night for four years until you realised what it was.

It's the childhood friend who knows your parents and is your brother's best mate who suddenly attacked you when you were 17 and then told you he'd be thrown out of Oxford if you said anything.

It's the kind colleague who offered to drive you home from that conference when there was a train strike and then forced his hands into your pants in a lay-by and then threatened to leave you there at 3am if you didn't stop being a cockteasing bitch.

We're not dumb. We see the constant attempts to make anything short of stranger with a knife made up, regret, our fault really, a matter of the woman not being clear.

We know why you keep trying to make this 'not rape'. Because if coercion, marital rape, pressure, manipulation and exploitation count, then the comforting fantasy that rape is only ever a stranger with a knife falls apart.

[Mah🍒 ⋆˚ @mahcherrys]

"7 em cada 10 homens n fazem exame de próstata por medo"

é engraço como é considerado compreensível sendo q o exame é feito por um médico, consensual, em um ambiente esterilizado mas se uma mulher falar q tem medo de homem por conta do 1 estupro a cada 11 minutos é paRaNOia

[𝓐 ⭑ @ayojoestar]

Person: “Why can’t you just move on?”

Autistic person: “Because the problem is still there.”

Person: “Nobody else seems bothered.”

Autistic person: “Nobody else seems willing to discuss it.”

[kelly @kellytheboss7]

How to Piss Off Someone with ADHD.
1. Start a story, then refuse to get to the point.
2. Say, "It's easy, just focus."
3. Give us a task and then 4.keep adding "one more thing."
5. Ask us a question while we're already concentrating on something else.
6.Move our stuff after we finally remembered where we put it.
7.Schedule a meeting that could've been a text.
8.Tell us, "You were listening, right?" after talking for 20 minutes straight.
9.Leave notifications pinging nonstop.
10.Say, "Remind me later," when we're barely remembering it now.
Make us sit through a slow-loading presentation with no visuals.