Remembering how when my Mum left, my Dad still didn't learn to cook or do anything else she'd been doing solo all those years.
I quickly taught myself to cook at age 10, using books from the library, as soon as I realised that every meal with my father was going to be a bag of frozen sausage rolls, plain toast, or nothing at all. By 13, I was cooking meals for him too.
And that's how male incompetence trains women.
Najua kuna a millennial mahali ameona hii vida akacheka mpaka akajipupulia halafu akaiweka status then akaituma kwa WhatsApp group ya family na ya church.