@ynotes_ For safety, you gotta stop meeting with these people. It’s already in court. Someone here tried this with me and after she confessed, I had her locked up and I got a fat cheque and a restraining order for my emotional distress. If you’re clean, let it play out. Trust the process.
@ikivile_studio Yes, it’s a child but if it’s not an emergency, please come back tomorrow. To avoid “it’s because I had a disagreement with the doctor, that’s why he gave my child so so and so and now this...”
There’s wisdom in that “come back tomorrow or please let another doctor attend to you”
On this Cynthia & Ynotes:
The more rape cases are proved to be false the less future real victims will be believed
women must not abuse the current previledge that they are believed by the public easily on rape issues, because if they lose it, it will be hard to regain. 1/3
Some people dislike outspoken women just for being outspoken. It’s not what these women say that offends them, but the fact these women feel empowered enough to speak up in the first place. Meanwhile, they’ll applaud men who are hyper-visible and unapologetically controversial.
I spent five days in a police cell and eight in prison — to track corruption in Nigeria’s criminal justice system.
UNDERCOVER INVESTIGATION (I): Bribery, bail for sale… Lagos police station where innocent civilians are jailed and criminals are recycled https://t.co/vBNAhgkIHe
@JajaPhD Point that Jaja is trying to make for the slow people is that; for someone that experienced how stories can just be made up, she should understand that believing first is dicey. If we had believed first, only God knows what would have happened to his reputation.
@phyl_arhedo @JajaPhD There was a requirement for proof to tie the accuser to the accused on some level yes?
That's the point.
"Believe all women" at first instance disregards the place for that. If you profess to practice it as an absolute principle... Then do so always.
@Mochievous@JajaPhD Can't you see what we are saying? She did not believe because she was privy to certain information pertaining the case. What if her husband was a stranger, I guess she would have believed blindly that he raped a nanny he did not know.
So this @cenbank mandate to banks to give loans is making banks desperate and dubious. I saw the very low rates of a bank - not my bank- and I was trying to get a soft loan from them. The process required sending them a 6 month account statement from my bank. I suppose this was
As a rule of thumb, anyone who introduces themselves with their religious title outside of their religious environment should be dealt with cautiously. Some of them try to appeal to moral superiority as a decoy for their moral bankruptcy.