WunmzSheks

A mother, an educator,religious,loves kids,loves life and travelling

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

14:38 @ the exit of apapa, from AreB police station today, Friday 10th July 2026. Gridlock on the #wharfroad #Apapa fallen down container on apapa bridge exit to iganmu and ikora

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

Apapa and traffic. Trailer container fallen. Crossing the road and blockingexit from areaB policestation. Alternatively, under the bridge is where trafficis diverted @followlastma @TrafficChiefNG @Gidi_Traffic

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@Letter_to_Jack It is funny how some people's hunble beginning is some people's breakthrough. I was sharing this with someone and she said ahe also remembered her humble beginning when she was working 9to5, this babe was earning 6figures monthly. Now an entrepreneur.

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@aiishadahir Jazakum Lahu khayran for this. Very important. Definitely incorporating in my teenagers

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Reminder:
This is not about shaming children.
It’s about equipping them with tools of protection from a young age.
Shame hides problems. Tarbiyah prevents them.

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Teen Years: Responsibility & Self-Control

•Teach lowering the gaze, avoiding zina, and guarding chastity
•Discuss the influence of pornography, hypersexualized media, and peer pressure
•Talk openly about marriage as a halal outlet, not a taboo
•Teach du’as for protection against desires اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لي ذَنْبي، وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبي، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجي
Transliteration:
Allāhumma ighfir lī dhanbī, wa ṭahhir qalbī, wa ḥaṣṣin farjī.
Meaning:
“O Allah, forgive my sin, purify my heart, and guard my chastity.”
(Narrated in Sunan Abī Dāwūd, 3257)

•Stress accountability: Allah sees what’s hidden, even if parents don’t

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Ages 10–12: Modesty & Early Changes

•Teach full awrah rules (boys: navel to knees; girls: entire body except face & hands in front of non-mahram men)
•Introduce the concept of haya (modesty) as a sign of faith
•Speak about puberty before it happens periods, wet dreams, body changes
•Emphasize ghusl (ritual purity) after janabah/menstruation
•Stress lowering the gaze and protecting the eyes

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Ages 6–9: Boundaries & Awareness

•Teach them to seek permission before hugs/physical touch
•Explain the difference between safe vs. unsafe touch
•No sitting on non-mahram laps
•Teach them basic awrah covering (don’t expose thighs, chest, etc.)
•Emphasize Allah is always watching, even in private

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Sexual Tarbiyah is part of Islamic parenting. It’s not shame, it’s protection.

It’s Here’s how it looks at different ages:

Ages 2–5: Privacy Basics
•Teach what body parts are private
•Encourage saying Bismillah before changing clothes
•Knock before entering their room and teach them to do the same
•Start gentle awareness of awrah (covering)

[Halal Nation @HalalNation_]

Stop and listen 🤍

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@lollypeezle See me battling with stomach pain and purging all day, reading from calabar City, and taking a flight to lagos today. I'm just praying that it subsides before and during the journey. Let my case not be like the driver of keke o🫣

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

Even the people closest to you may say mean and nasty things. Take it in your stride. That’s just how life is. Your job is to be patient and rise above it all. Never forget that the Almighty hears everything. Surely He will make things right.

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

Let’s face it. You are not going to wake up every morning feeling like you can conquer the world. That’s ok. But don’t quit. Those “low” days are crucial in your development. The Almighty will see you through. Place your firm belief and trust in Him. Your load will lighten.

[Mufti Menk @muftimenk]

No matter what difficulties you’re facing, know that the Almighty has your back. He’s there even when things seem hopeless. He’s there even when the circumstances are darker than you ever imagined. He’s there when everyone has given up on you. Place your trust and hope in Him.

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@channelstv U. U ui
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[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@king_pearxe lollll
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@queen_meghan14 Asin.....just look at this sweet couple. Who won't be mad when they're not looking like them😂❤️❤️

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@iam_thowbie Passing the phone to all the widows out there,male,female,young,old. We will survive this. As per The grief,we will be overcome it regardless of the # of yrs.Those children will make us proud. Don't give up don't loose hope,be steadfast & positive. It will end in praise. ISA

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

True. Facts

[Sara @piousdeenn]

Fasting is proof that you can stop bad habits. Taraweeh is proof that you can pray voluntary prayers at night. Suhur is proof that you can wake up for Fajr. Islam isn't hard. You just haven't realized your own potential yet.

[WunmzSheks @wunmiAlatishe]

@kirawadare For real? Spain? Never knew never heard
Thought it never saw a day of Islam.