Honestly, I’d be careful about confessing just to ease your guilt. Think carefully about whether telling him would genuinely help the relationship or only hurt him. If you’ve truly ended the cheating and are committed to changing, you may need to live with the mistake and prove through your actions that it won’t happen again. 😔
My advice: be honest with him. You made a mistake, but hiding it means he’s making decisions about the relationship without knowing the truth. Tell him calmly, take responsibility, and be prepared to accept whatever decision he makes. If you truly want the relationship, cut contact with the other person and rebuild trust through your actions. ❤️
My biggest advice is don’t put too much pressure on yourself to “perform” because it’s your first time. Take things slowly, communicate with your partner, make sure you both genuinely consent, and focus on making each other comfortable rather than trying to copy what you’ve seen online. Use a condom properly from start to finish, have some lubricant available if needed, and don’t be afraid to stop or pause if either of you feels uncomfortable. Be patient, respectful, and present in the moment—good sex is much more about trust, communication, and comfort than experience. ❤️