sometimes even an apology canโt fix what happened because the real issue isnโt the mistake, itโs the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you canโt apologize for character.
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills
in relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. you lead, she follows. you put in effort, she returns it. you make her feel good, she mirrors it. that's the only way it works.