Getting yo shit together requires a deep level of honesty with yourself, you gotta be able to look at yourself in the mirror & be willing to accept flaws & behavior that's not allowing you to grow , self evaluation is difficult but it's extremely necessary.
im a firm believer in taking care of the man that takes care of me, if a nigga makes sure im straight rather it be something big or small. I'm going to always make sure he knows that he's appreciated.