The things you are crying about are what makes the sport fun and special, people crying about offsides and extra time when winning or losing, it adds to the adrenaline and the chaos, football is about moments and more…
The World Cup is awesome and soccer is a great sport but I have two gripes… the clock should stop on stoppages like every other sport. Extra time is unnecessary and offsides should only exist on set pieces. Attacking teams shouldn’t be penalized for getting behind the defense