Dismissive avoidants don't want to fix things. They want to keep you in a cycle where they can do whatever they want, then make you the problem when you speak up for yourself.
the craziest thing about being an adult is that you could go through the most traumatic night of your life and you'll just have to go to work the next day
when they stop caring about the things that once made them feel alive, start moving through life on autopilot, isolate themselves without explanation and slowly trade their peace for constant survival mode. the loudest sign is always silence.