If you want your relationship to last, you have to be cool with cutting off what makes your partner uncomfortable. It's not control, it's respect. It's not toxic, it's growth.
I cried alone, vented alone, calmed my anxiety attacks alone, felt alone, advised myself alone, spend time alone. No one lived my life, nor cried my tears, so no one has the right to judge my way of being.
no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. i'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again