xanderreoilee

23 | a king.

[aether @bluewdrift]

in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you’ve created.

[Eyiram ✿͙🫧 @itsEyiram]

I highly recommend getting yourself a "how can i help" partner and not "you will be fine" partner.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Your appearance matters. Let no one fool you. Normalise dressing well.

[xanderreoilee @xanderreeoile]

tdy fr to failure😭

[sine. @sneminaj]

This is not the era to fumble a good partner bruh, you might not recover from it.

[6’5 guy @65cj200]

When they would rather lose you than change their behavior, they are making it clear that you were never their choice.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“After getting what you manifested, ask for discipline to keep it and wisdom to multiply it.”

[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

Underrated truth: No matter where you are in life, there is still so much to look forward to. People you haven’t met. Places you haven’t seen. Ideas you haven’t discovered. Versions of yourself you haven’t become. Believe the world has more in store for you, and it will.

[𝜗℘ @lacedli]

i do yearn for someone who’s curious and passionate about learning my mind and everything that shaped me to be exactly how i am now but forcing connections just to feel that reciprocity goes against my morals, i can’t ever force any connection

[xanderreoilee @xanderreeoile]

@wick8rex wow

[Six @likethenumber6]

People hate to admit it but there is a deadline for that intense passionate “chaotic” love. After a certain age you approach everything through the lens of logic. You cannot afford to love the way you loved at 22 at 30

[aether @bluewdrift]

if you wanna be happy you literally cannot cannot cannot cannottttttt care what people think… like you have to practice that daily.. and stay grounded in that. long as you not hurting or hindering nobody do what you want & be unapologetic about it… daily.

[sammm ☆ @onlysammms]

It's so funny how some people force you to unlove them like damn i would've given u the world

[xanderreoilee @xanderreeoile]

physique update as of 2026

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

I highly recommend staying single and locking in on yourself. No distractions. No half-love. No mixed signals. Just peace, discipline, growth, money, healing, and self-respect. Learn who you are. Build your life the way you want it. Put the work in without needing applause. When you're solid, the right people and opportunities line up naturally.

Trust that.

[🦋 @leftunsents]

there is a kind of sadness that comes from being too independent. you spend a lot of time alone, handling everything by yourself. you feel proud because you survived hard times alone. But sometimes, you wish you had someone to lean on.
Someone who would understand without needing you to explain. Because deep down, you never wanted to do it all alone. you just had no other choice

[CooperBaggs 💰🍞 @edgaralandough]

This is going to sound crazy.

But, one of the skills you must learn in the near future is how to cope with an increasingly illiterate society of emotionally dysregulated people.

If you continue to get frustrated on a daily basis over how everything seems dumb, stress is going to silently jeopardize your health.

[Reechmilly @Reechmilly]

75% of this adult shit is learning how to control yourself.

[D🪿 @Devsthetix]

low confidence? gym.
nothing to do? gym.
new hobby? gym.
health? gym.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

It takes emotional maturity to say, “I messed up, and I hurt you.” Avoidants, liars, and narcissists can't pay that price. They would rather destroy a genuine connection than dismantle the illusion of their own perfection.