If you are non stop complaining about others pretty privilege, others earning a lot easily, you are subconsciously calling yourself broke and ugly btw lol
Being submissive to a woman doesn't rob a man of his masculinity. Testosterone fuels drive, not just dominance.
Men should compete with other men. Go earn more, be physically stronger, be smarter and more ambitious. But the only ambition you should keep around a woman is to please and to worship her.