XEMA SU

A visionary | Lingerie designer | Fall seven times, stand up eight. LETS MAKE HISTORY ✨

[XEMA SU @xemasu]

Every delay has its blessings 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

[M_TraditionalTaboo @MTradTaboo]

One reason relationships are becoming harder is that we’ve confused interdependence with codependency. Love requires mutual influence. When we believe no one has the right to challenge or shape us, intimacy becomes nearly impossible.

[XEMA SU @xemasu]

@Niks929 @mynewshub I love sarong!

[Toriss🦋 @toriss__]

A big part of being reliable is communicating in time to let people know you can't show up for them at that moment. There is maturity in recognizing that reliability doesn't mean being perfect it means having the respect and self awareness to give a heads up when you can’t.

[Your Best Version @YourPrimePath]

Always being in a hurry is probably the biggest sign of low energy and nervous system dysregulation. It looks like productivity from the outside but it feels like panic from the inside. The person who is always rushing is rarely ahead — they are just anxious. Real confidence moves slowly. Real power does not sprint through conversations, meals or moments. It takes its time because it knows it has enough. Calm down. Slow your pace. The most regulated and grounded people you will ever meet are never in a rush.

[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

Major cheat code for life: Make peace with being unimpressive to the outside world. Drive the normal car. Wear the simple clothes. Live below your means. Stay in the committed relationship. The ability to look ordinary while building an extraordinary life is wildly underrated.

[Sairanebiriiisii @Sairanebirkisi]

Evlenebilmek için mizah denkliği + maddi denklik + enerji uyuşması + memleketi + görüş + ahlaki denklik + mahremiyet ölçüsünde aynı olma + göze hitap etme + ailelerin denkliği + düşünce denkliği + yaşayış denkliği olması lazım herkese başarılar.

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

Sometimes, people who once had full access to you forget how rare that access truly is. They move carelessly, never realising the doors you opened for them remained closed to almost everyone else. They never understood your depth because they never had to earn it. Only after they became just another name, just another face in the crowd, did they begin to feel the distance. The saddest part isn’t losing them. It’s realising how deeply you let them into your world while they barely recognised the privilege of being there. Access to a person is a privilege and is never guaranteed.

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

The saddest lesson in Surah Al-Qasas is:

"Sometimes you have to leave your home to find peace”

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

Bc the pain of facing the truth is still better than the pain of living in a loop that slowly kills your spirit. The healing begins when you stop waiting. Bc you’ve finally started listening. You don’t need more hope.

You need peace, truth & reciprocity.

[Tuncay @orwllianv5]

Kızlar, size bir erkek sırrı vereyim:Erkekler sandığınız kadar karmaşık değildir. Düz düşünürler. Sizi istiyorsa yazar, arar, gelir. İstemiyorsa “Acaba”ile baş başa bırakır. Bir erkeğin niyetini anlamak için sözlerine değil, size ayırdığı zamana bakın. Teşekkürü sonra yaparsınız

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

The older I get, the more I realise that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you and makes space for you in their life, it means something. Time is the one thing we can never get back and people don't give it away lightly.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.

[valentine @valawakened]

Being loved by the right person allows you to grow into who you were always meant to be. Their love doesn't confine or ask you to shrink. It gives you the safety to expand. In their presence, you feel seen without being shaped, supported without being controlled and encouraged without feeling pressured. Loving them, and being loved by them, softens the parts of you that are guarded and strengthens the parts that are waiting to emerge.
Through that kind of love, you don't become someone else, you become more fully yourself
The only type of love you deserve and should welcome

[blue @bluewmist]

Major life hack: Don't complain, ever. Nobody likes a complainer. They drain the energy of everyone around them. It's exhausting spending time around someone who constantly complains about things outside their control. If it's within your control, go do something about it. If it's not, you're just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.

[valentine @valawakened]

“Someone who lets you rest” might be one of the most beautiful relationship dynamics there is.

A parent who opens the door and welcomes you home after everything has fallen apart. A best friend whose voice alone quiets your mind. A partner who tells you to stay in bed a little longer because the dishes can wait.

A stranger who notices how exhausted you look and offers you their seat on the train.

There is something profoundly human about people who make you feel like you don’t have to carry the weight of the world all by yourself. They don’t just love you they give you somewhere to put your burdens down, if only for a little while.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Some people in your life have never seen you at your full capacity. They met you in a hard season, a transitional moment, a version of you still being built. Do not let their limited experience of you become your ceiling. You are more than the chapter they witnessed.

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.

[ᴊᴜᴀɴғʀᴀ ʜᴏᴍs @juanfhoms]

Solo desapégate, deja que termine. Acepta lo que la vida te traiga, no todo esta destinado a durar y no todas las historias tienen un final feliz. Deja de forzar lo que ya no encaja. Haz las pases con lo que ya se terminó y permítete volver a respirar.

Todo pasa.

[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

Major cheat code for life: Knowing when something is not yours to fix. Their mood. Their choices. Their drama. Love people, support people, but stop carrying what was never yours to hold.

[Fav ⛧ @Favwontmiss]

I am bringing this up again: the family background of your spouse will play a vital role in your marriage and in the development of your children. Love may bring two people together, but habits, culture, beliefs, discipline, communication style, trauma, pride, humility, and family patterns will eventually walk into the home too. Never underrate the influence of what someone was raised around. Love alone is not enough.