I want anniversaries. I want someone to look at me and can't imagine life without me. I want unconditional love. I want healthy communication. I want the fireworks that never die. Butterflies even after we're months/years in. I want years with someone.
Being with a man who WANTS to be a father>>>>>>> having a supportive and equally excited and present partner during pregnancy is important for baby's imprint and for mom's perinatal/postpartum period. Pregnancy is too risky of a situation to be having babies with loser ass men.