are you actually upset over one thing or has it been a culmination of events in which you felt taken for granted, so you chose to consistently practice an immense amount of self-control in order to become the bigger person & resolve the conflict but now you’re exhausted & fed up.
At some point you just got to tell people, I love you, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to remove myself. I’m not even asking you to change.