Unfortunately, yes I sure DO give up on people. You can’t continuously disappoint me, distract me, not pour into me & expect me to continue showing up for you. No can do.
As someone who grew up with ADHD, complete lack of structure, and also with parents who thought putting pressure on me would work... I do not literally do not care about most consequences, lol.
When people say “you need to just unlearn your trauma and go to therapy, you’re an adult” they seem to think there’s a magical therapy switch where you go to therapy and within 180 days you just become a more socially acceptable person that’s released their baggage
It’s crazy how if you fuck your life up as a teenager you can’t come back from it. It’s also crazy how if you fuck your life up in your 20s you can’t come back from it. I recommend not fucking up
None of you are self-aware. You are howling narcissists. This woman starts this video off by listing her personality type, attachment style, horoscope, as if borrowed categories add up to a self. You think about yourselves too much and have mistaken it for introspection.