one of findom/femdom's biggest flaws is replicating men's worst traits: selfishness, aggression, lust, etc
we should value feminine traits: empathy, unity and wisdom. women were born to lead precisely because of these qualities
@sublimesseoff Wow, la chance qu'il a eu de pouvoir vous les offrir, j'espère qu'il a eu le privilège de lécher leurs semelles ou de se faire éclater les parties intimes avec en récompense :)
A good Dominatrix isn't simply someone who's comfortable giving orders.
She understands negotiation, boundaries, consent, pacing, and how to create an experience around the interests of the people involved.
The fantasy might be that she's completely in control. The reality is that both people have agreed to how that control works.
I'm a nurturing Domme, and I'm tired of people acting like having a heart makes you less dominant. I can love money, gifts, being spoiled, and having someone completely devoted to me WITHOUT wanting to see that person financially ruined, mentally exhausted, or struggling to survive. I don't find pleasure in knowing someone skipped a meal to send me money. I don't get an ego boost from someone neglecting their responsibilities to prove their loyalty. And I damn sure don't need to destroy someone's self-esteem to feel powerful. Some of us actually CARE about the people who submit to us. We remember the little things. We check on them. We celebrate their accomplishments. We encourage them to do better in life. We understand that they're HUMAN before they're anything else. Dominance has NEVER required cruelty. And anyone who thinks kindness automatically equals weakness has a very limited understanding of power. Some of us want our subs to thrive, not just survive us. 💗💯✨️💪🏽
@broke4nyxx C'est vrai que c'est plus compliqué qu'on ne le pense finalement des fois, vous voulez quelqu'un hors de votre entourage proche, ou une personne qui ne vous connait pas du tout, justement pour avoir se côté complètement libre pour parler ?
Esse vídeo viralizando na minha tl do pessoal com a galera fazendo piada com diva pop 🤣 o pior é eu entendendo a referência sobre a cantora ao mesmo tempo que eles lá não têm ideia…