#XIAOJUN Hey, Somebody Podcast summary: Chapter 1, Hatred
our main character does an in-depth sharing about her parents' divorce and her struggles with accepting her mother's new partner, hatred towards him. throughout, xiaojun asks questions to understand more about her situation, and share advice.
🐶 i also used to prioritise my family first, and of course i still do - but i am slowly realising that, even if our parents have raised us for many years, our lives are eventually set to take individual paths. just like our separate fingers, we each live our different lives, although we come from the same hand. slowly as you go through university, and start working, you'll start embarking on your own path.
so your hatred towards your family situation - i can't teach you how Not to feel the pain, because it is inevitable considering your situation, and growing pains are real. but one day you will also eventually realise that you should prioritise your own life, your own journey - and this doesn't mean that you are selfish, nor does it mean you don't love your family!
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