Nos corps ne sont pas faits que pour travailler et nous reproduire. Ils sont aussi faits pour donner et prendre du plaisir, à tel point qu'il y a chez la femme un organe qui est entièrement dédié au plaisir.
N'écoutez pas celles et ceux qui cherchent à diaboliser ce que la nature nous a offert en cadeau.
Jouissez de la vie et de ce qu'elle vous offre. Jouissez tout court !
𝑇 𝑒𝑛~𝐿~
🎨 Cristo
researchers studying female orgasm discovered that the number one predictor of whether she finishes is not technique, not position, not size, and not duration. it's whether the man maintained a consistent rhythm without changing it.
a study on partnered female orgasm found that women who reported the highest orgasm frequency described partners who found a rhythm that worked and held it. the women who reported the lowest frequency described partners who constantly switched techniques, positions, speeds, and pressures.
the mechanism is arousal accumulation. female arousal doesn't build in a straight line. it builds in a staircase pattern. each step requires sustained consistent stimulation at the same rhythm for 30 to 90 seconds before the arousal locks in at that level and begins climbing to the next. change the rhythm and the staircase resets to a lower step. the arousal doesn't pause. it drops. she has to rebuild from a lower level.
this is why she says "right there don't stop" and means it literally. "right there" means the position is correct. "don't stop" means the rhythm has locked in and her arousal is climbing the staircase. the moment you change speed, angle, or pressure you reset the climb. she was 80% of the way up and you moved the ladder.
the instinct most men have is to escalate. go faster. go harder. switch to something more intense. this instinct actively prevents her orgasm because every escalation is a rhythm change and every rhythm change resets the accumulation.
the correct approach is counterintuitive: find the rhythm that makes her breathing change. then do exactly that. at exactly that speed. at exactly that pressure. for as long as it takes. the discipline to not change what's working is the single highest leverage skill in the entire act. monotony is the mechanism. consistency is the technique. her orgasm is on the other side of your ability to resist the urge to do something different.
A woman does not want to be loved, but to have a totem of strength and power to which she can devote herself.
A woman does not wish to be loved in the sense of being the center of gravity of a man’s life. She wants to be cared for, well treated, and valued. But she wants to know that her man loves first and foremost his personal destiny, his vocation, and his existential mission.
And to accomplish that, a man must be endowed with strength and power of character, intellect, and body. And that is what a woman wants most: to prostrate herself at the feet of such a pillar of strength and power and overflow with love like a cup of wine poured by a drunkard.
The greatest proof of a man’s love for a woman is not the one expressed in romantic gestures, chocolates, flowers, or constant declarations of love, but in granting her his existential strength and being the deeply rooted tree in which she seeks protection from the world.
That is why simps, even when they are attentive, affectionate, and give a woman all the attention she demands, will always be set aside for a man who puts his destiny and vocation first. As Rousseau said, a woman first loves strength, and only afterward the man.
Women show off simps the same way men show off trophy wives.
Trust me, if a woman is showing you off or what you're doing for her, it's not a compliment.
It's an insult.
The real alphas they desire, the ones they give up the pussy to for nothing, they usually keep that on the down low.