After certain things happen, u just don't feel the same about some people anymore... no matter who they r to u. It's not hatred. It's not even anger. It's just... something shifts. You still talk. u still respond. u still smile sometimes. Bt the warmth isn't the same. The comfort isn't the same. The way u used to look at them, trust them, feel safe with them,it changes without asking ur permission. And the hardest part is that, they might not even realize what they did. But u do. And once something inside you breaks quietly, it never goes back to th way it was.
A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one. Because it won't let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: Show up. Communicate. Grow. Swallow the pride. It's a repeated choice to stay and work at it together. Even when it's hard and ugly. That's why real love scares people so much in this generation.
i made up my mind, i will still be kind but not blindly kind like before. No more, if aku tak buat, mesti dia tak buat. I will reflect. I do what you do. Fair enough for me so i dont keep disappointed.
even in Islam, we're taught to make hijrah. if you don't like where you are, move. if your environment drains you, change it. if what influences you isn't good for you, walk away. there's nothing wrong with leaving what harms you
aku bilang ke istri, santai sambil tiduran di sofa.
"aku kan udah bantu cuci piring"
dia melongo, tapi matanya ngomong sesuatu
malamnya, dia duduk di depanku
"mas boleh tanya satu hal?"
"boleh"
"Bantu siapa?"
dua kata, dan aku ga bisa jawab
Kenapa ramai orang suruh cari pasangan yang jaga solat? Sebab kalau dia mampu istiqamah dalam menjaga hubungan dengan الله, sudah pasti dia mampu jaga hubungan sesama manusia. Kalau dengan الله pun dia boleh buat sambil lewa tak mustahil hati kau pun dia boleh buat tidak penting.