I’ve deeply learned that people do not have an issue with you, they are in bad spaces due to horrible life decisions and are just trying to find someone to consistently project it onto. They’re negative towards you today and someone else tomorrow.
I still think one of the worst personality flaws you can have is not being able to admit you were wrong, even in the presence of overwhelming evidence. I hate it so much.
This time two years ago I worked alongside a very kind and hospitable Italian lady that taught me some lifelong culinary & social lessons. (And little bit of Italian too, belissima!)