Saw someone say "you could literally be fighting for your life, and some people will only notice how you're not showing up for them." Let that sink in.
Your wife or ur girlfriend is the only person who has ever loved you exactly who u are. Ur mother loves u because ur her son,ur siblings love u bcos ur their brother, ur children love u bcos ur their father. U and ur partner aren't related. She's not connected to u. She chose u.