My girlfriend once told me something during an argument that stayed with me,
"When I tell you something hurt me, I'm not attacking you. I'm trusting you with a vulnerable part of me. The moment you start defending yourself instead of understanding me, the conversation stops being about the problem and starts being about your ego."
That hit me hard.
I truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife.
A cooking wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife. to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, fun, spontaneous God fearing husband.
Rihanna sharing a quote that said “the moment you start hiding your emotions to avoid arguments, you begin losing the bond that once made you feel like home” and the shit is real asf.