date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.
Just seen a video where a girl said the real flex is training your mind to be stronger than your feelings and your boundaries to be strong than your empathy. At this point I clearly need that tatted on my forehead in bold print.