watching the man who once was obsessed with me turn into the most evil person i know has altered my brain chemistry and i dont know how long will it take to fix my perception towards love
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Stop telling women to "choose better" when someone deliberately lied about who they were. Being manipulated isn't the same thing as having bad judgment. Just saying
i can’t stand a nigga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like bitches?
A manipulative person will watch you pour your heart out, sacrifice your peace, and lower your standards, all while they give you the bare minimum and calls it effort. Then when you finally fed up, somehow you are the problem.
niggas will deadass turn you into a person you weren’t before you met them & then paint you into this villain when it’s time to face the monster they created. like my nigga what? a complete joke
one of the cool things about misogyny is men will speak to you in the most rude, condescending, and out of pocket manners, totally unprompted, and if you dare to match their energy suddenly it’s YOU who’s “starting a fight”, “causing drama”, “being rude”, or “being combative”
normalize telling women "that man hates you." i’m so over the obvious disrespect, neglect and abuse women endure for the sake of loving a man. you love him but he hates you. stand up & WALK AWAY!!!
A ngga can only treat you based on his past experiences. If all he’s dated is women he could control, neglect, or half-love, he ain’t magically finna know how to handle a woman who requires consistency, effort, and respect. If you’re out his league, you won’t get princess treatment, you’ll get power struggles.