Celibacy is very easy when you realize that there's literally nobody worth being inside of you if they arenโt helping to make you better and loving you correctly! You can go months on top of months.. it's really nothing.
I think when youโre transitioning from being a people pleaser into somebody with more boundaries it can feel so weirdโit's hard to tell if youโre being mean or if youโre actually just respecting your own feelings, bcoz youโre so used to putting other people's feelings above yours
As an adult itโs always a dish that needs to be washed, a shirt that needs to be folded, and food that needs to be cooked. The job is never done ๐ญ