Abis baca (lupa dimana) kalo terlalu mengaitkan value diri sama hal konkrit (kayak hobi, pekerjaan, peran) itu membuat sense of self jadi lemah.
Dianjurkan untuk mengaitkan personality sama value yang lebih abstrak dan kuat (kayak integritas, keterbukaan, kejujuran).
Lo ngerasa bosen mulu? itu karena jarang ngerjain side quest. Hidup itu nggak cuma kerja pulang kerja pulang plus rotting di tempat tidur doang.
Nih, 20 side quests yang bisa lo kerjain dikala bosen melanda.
as someone who does pilates for the sake of my scoliosis, i hate that pilates become a feminine expensive pink princess symbol whatever meanwhile joseph pilates invented pilates for rehabilitation purposes, i hate how capitalism changed the perspective
makanya gw bilang, justru laki yang baik sama semua orang itu yang mestinya lu cari. jangan malah yang “asshole to the world, but sweet to me”. how people love is their character, bukan karena lu spesial. them being mean to other women is blaring alarm.
Jangankan pacar, kadang temen juga gini kok. Ada yang sama si a suka foto, main sana-sini dll, giliran sama kita malah gamau dan ga effort.
So, if they're not meant to be for you, they will find way to disappoint you in so many ways, babes...
Personal trainer gym gw dipecat dari gym-nya trus memutuskan menjadi personal trainer indie (anjayy) dengan ngandelin niche "personal trainer khusus manula". Sekarang kebanjiran client sampe harus pake supir pribadi. Kekuatan mencari peluang gaess
beberapa hari lalu gue selesai baca buku dan doi langsung nanya “did you finish it? tell me everything about it.” sambil tepuk-tepuk kasur. akhirnya gue yapping 20 menit tentang buku itu sampe ketiduran. he doesn’t like reading books, but he listens :3
your brain is always becoming better at whatever you repeatedly do. that’s why repetition changes people more than motivation ever will. if you spend every day stressing, overthinking, comparing yourself to strangers online, replaying old mistakes, and expecting the worst, your brain slowly starts treating those patterns like home. it begins scanning the world for more proof that you’re not enough, that life is against you, that things won’t work out. the scary part is your brain doesn’t care if the pattern is helping you or destroying you. it only cares about what gets repeated.
but the same thing works in your favor too. when you repeatedly choose discipline, growth, gratitude, focus, and belief in yourself, your brain slowly reshapes around those things as well. at first it feels unnatural because your old patterns are louder, but over time your perspective changes. challenges stop feeling like signs to quit and start feeling like part of the process. your mind becomes whatever it practices most. so be careful what you keep giving your attention to because eventually, your thoughts become your reality.
Dari banyak teori soal hidup, yang paling gue suka tuh:
1. Burnt Toast Theory
2. The Last Meeting Theory
3. Red String Theory.
Apa itu? sini gue jelasin satu-satu dibawah:
"Cowok tuh yang penting ceweknya nurut aja udah, gausah feminis2an"
"Owalah aku feminis sih"
"Ohh tapi bukan feminis yang pro aborsi kan"
"Aku pro aborsi"
"Ya yang penting gak misandris"
"Aku misandris"
"Ohh emang iya sih, cowok jaman sekarang bejat"
😂 coba kalo gw jelek
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