This may upset some more “traditional” people but I think you should live together before you get married. There is a whole different dynamic in your relationship when you actually live together vs when you have your own places and choose to sleep over a lot.
Y’all please check on your happy friends, family, classmates, coworkers, etc. no matter how happy they may seem they might have some shit going on that they just don’t know how to talk about. Just ask them if they’re Ight and if they ask why just tell them you’re just checking.💔