I think my love with being alone stems from me knowing if I'm alone then no one is around to disturb me or alter any of my emotions. Everything is up to me, no one is there to misunderstand me, judge me, It's peaceful. A peace I don't feel often with other humans.
Our nervous system doesn't register someone's intention or intelligence when it registers trauma. It doesn't say, "'I'm gonna feel that blow differently because they say they 'love' me" or "they don't know any better."
Our nervous system registers impact. Not intentions.
Men cheat and dont lose shit, not they homeboys, they girlfriend/wife, and 99% of the time they get the best of both worlds and still just keep cheating, women cheat and now they gotta lose it all, including their homegirls??? Like be so serious
At times, it's necessary for people in our lives to feel bad. That's how people learn and grow. At times, it's necessary for people in our lives to be disappointed to let down. And that's ok.