Your options being:
Man who wants you to be his mom.
Man who wants you to be his sex doll.
Man who wants you to be his maid.
Man who wants you to be his mommy, sex doll, maid all in one.
Man who seems weirdly into your particular ethnic background.
All of whom are broke.
No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.