Sex is a plus... but i want to feel beautiful, wanted, loved, and appreciated. I want to be in love freely, i want a mutual understanding that we are on a mission to keep love alive. I want to never go to bed mad. I want conversations, fun... unconditional love.
I think my biggest pet peeve is somebody playing on my intelligence... like I'm slow? or like I don't be paying attention or like I can't put two and two together… or like I dont be listening.
If you want to base my whole personality on how I behave after being disrespected, that’s on you. Just know you’re not witnessing my character, you’re witnessing my boundaries. You’re not seeing who i truly am, you’re seeing who i become when I’m forced to protect myself.
i grew up walking on eggshells, recognising footsteps, tones. How to tell if someone was in a bad mood and avoid them. I actually learned to study people at a young age. I’m quiet and very observant for a reason. I’ll read you like a book before we even speak
No one talks enough about how exhausting it is to continuously be the one who “gives grace”. In a lot of instances, you’re giving grace at the expense of putting someone else’s needs before your own.