“No one is forcing you to work at that job you hate.”
Rent is due, health insurance is tied to employment, groceries aren’t free. Utilities will get cut off, student loans don’t pause, and homelessness is one bad month away. Yeah, yeah. Totally voluntary.
I just learned that if you are neurodivergent the best way to get respect out of neurotypicals is by being aggressive and mean because they perceive those type of people as high value & kindness as low value. Where as neurodivergent ppl view kindness and empathy as high value and aggression as low value.
This is why they want you to forget about the Epstein files. There are dozens of girls just like her who were taken and sold into human trafficking. They’re probably not even alive anymore. What happened to these girls is beyond comprehension, and the people responsible are getting away with it.
In Feng Shui, the fact that 80% of autistic people are bullied or used by 'friends' is because their mental layout is often an 'open Ming Tang (Bright Hall)'—no scheming, no defenses, straightforward. This extremely pure 'Qi field' easily attracts 'Robbing Wealth Afflictions' (people who plunder under the guise of friendship) and 'Hidden Arrow Afflictions' (betrayals from behind) in complex social Feng Shui. The post's grim data reminds us: 'Water that is too clear has no fish; a layout too open invites thieves.' Autistic individuals don't need to change their inner 'pure water quality,' but they must build a 'Xuan Guan (Spiritual Screen)' at their social boundaries. This screen acts as a 'buffer and filter': making the turbid energy of 'scheming' and 'calculating' detour at the door, allowing only the 'vital Qi' (true friends) tested by time to enter the inner chamber. Remember: Your kindness is expensive; it must have Feng Shui 'edges' and 'thresholds.' Don't let just anyone march straight into your natal layout.
The autistic urge to win people's friendship by being as helpful as you can, but then accidentally getting manipulated and misled by opportunists who use you for your free labour.
Got a call from my daughter’s school today telling me that a boy she’d recently broken up with had deliberately smashed her MacBook because he was angry she ended the relationship.
Apparently, he wasn’t handling the breakup well and decided destroying something expensive was an appropriate response.
The school asked if I wanted reimbursement for the MacBook.
Absolutely.
I’d already started arranging a replacement because she needs it for school, but that doesn’t mean he gets to avoid the consequences of his actions.
Then they asked if I wanted to move forward with a disciplinary report regarding the threatening messages he’d been sending her after she repeatedly told him to leave her alone.
Again, absolutely.
Because this is exactly the kind of behavior people dismiss as “teenage drama” until……
I told my students I'd curve their exams even tho it's against department policy. THESE IDIOTS put in the student evaluations "shes amazing!! she curved our exams!" IF THEY READ THAT I AM GOING TO BE IN TROUBLE. Dad gave you cookies, you dont tell mom about it OMF 😭😭😭😭😭😭
The neurodivergent ick when you realize mid-convo that correcting them is pointless because they'd need self-awareness and emotional intelligence to even process that they're wrong.
WHEN YOU FEEL ANGRY, stomp your feet, shake your arms, scream into a pillow, tear up paper, throw ice into the bathtub or sink, or forcefully scribble on paper to help release that energy!
The neurodivergent paradox: won't message first, won't answer calls, avoids eye contact... but if you speak to them? Suddenly the funniest, most passionate person in the room. We're just waiting for a safe space to switch on.
Air signs 🌬️
Okayyy... like wow! Your aura is doing the absolute most. If you've been doubting yourself, knock it off. You're the person people think about after they get home. The one whose texts get reread. The one whose jokes get repeated.
I’m an eldest daughter which means I’m automatically irritated by your incompetence because I was never given room or grace to be imcompetent. I won’t be elaborating. The daughters who know get it.
I am kinda freaking out but I just realized all the animals that represent the WATER signs all GLOW under UV light
Crabs, scorpions and even some fish
What do you think this means ?