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mark bnyk banget impian yang selama jd idol dia sulit buat capai, semoga setelah ini bisa capai semua ya mark 🥹🫳🏻
@bashotoo aku pernah kaya gtu sama percis, yg buat ngecas nya bolongan itu di bersihin pake tissue dan akhirnya normal lagi, kalo aku wktu itu gara gara kotor, smga dikamu ngaruh ya
You call her toxic now.
But you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. Before the lies. Before the betrayal. Before she had to protect herself from you. She became guarded because you kept hurting her.
She became reactive because you kept crossing lines. She became tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn't toxicity. That was damage.
And expecting her to stay soft after everything you put her through is the real denial. You didn't lose a good woman. You changed her, then blamed her for the result.
You broke her trust, you bruised her heart, and now you're shocked she's not the same person you fell for.
Newsflash: she's not the one who's changed; your perspective has. You're seeing the effects of your actions and calling it her problem.
She's not toxic; she's wounded.
And instead of owning up to the hurt you caused, you're gaslighting her into thinking she's the flawed one.
Own it. You hurt someone who loved you, and now she's protecting herself from further pain.
That's not toxicity; that's self-preservation.
And if you can't see the damage you've done, that's on you.
i am so thankful. for my life, my family, my friends, the people who love and care for me, the love within me, the blessings that continue to come, the lessons, the growth, everything . I’m thankful. grateful. fulfilled.