| A confused and insecure husband recovering from emotional scars, A father | nsfw | goblok rants, playing victim | Fearful Avoidant| Cognitive dissonance
This week is a disaster for me.
My malas memang so destructive up to a point that I do nothing.
I lost interest dgn my job, I lost interest dengan my family, I lost interest dengan my own self.
I need to do something, to change.
I don't want to drag everybody down.
@meinmokhtar Waktu dia hilang hymen, dia rasa itu penting. Tapi, mendapatkan lelaki terbaik akan mengatasi hymen tu. Tu konsep hypergamy.
Utk lelaki, we can choose who we want to build the life with. Jangan choose sebarangan.
@meinmokhtar Pasangan yang tak dapat jaga emosi sendiri, akan bawa banyak masalah kemudian hari. Kalau emosi dia tak stable skg, dia maybe akan kekal tak stable lama lagi.
Normal ratio 20% je emosi teruk. Kalau lebih dari tu, kau sendiri kena 120% emosi bagus, utk support dia.
Sanggup?
@meinmokhtar You have to tell him, dia kena tahu sebab benda tu penting for you.
Tapi, your husband pun kena cari how he can adjust to you and his needs for physical touch.
But why are you feeling this way, ada pernah berlaku any bad things ke before?
Or you just have some dif perspective
4. "The fantasy woman is not real. Your wife is."
The therapist explained that the women you fantasize about do not have morning breath. They do not have stretch marks. They do not have bad days. They are not real. They are perfect because they are imaginary. Your wife is real. She has morning breath. She has stretch marks. She has bad days. She also has loved you for 15 years. She has raised your children. She has seen you at your worst. The fantasy woman has done none of that. You are comparing a real person to a ghost. Ghosts always win. They are not real.
@dinihariina Dulu anak kecik, I ada dua phone. Mmg video call on sepanjang keluar yang dekat² supaya kalau dia tersedar, dia terus boleh cakap dgn I. Or kalau I nampak dia bangun, I boleh terus balik.
Offkan microphone kita waktu vid call tu supaya tak disturb dia dan on waktu nak cakap je.
The result: Husband dia pun cuba buat benda yg sama, selepas dihina, diherdik, dicabar.
Me: So, kenapa kawin? Stay single ajelah? Be happy alone, be content alone, be with your god damn self ajelah? Why must you cari husband waktu you are not ready to be a wife?!!
Rosak mental
My sister: "I do not need a man in my life"
So, her action is 💯 supporting that belief - dia tak ambil kira pendapat husband, dia rasa dia je betul, dia anggap husband ni manusia lemah, dia anggap lelaki semua bodoh, dia berkira, dia tak bagi husband tenang, dia nak happy sorg
@NazXyz101@meinmokhtar Sebab tu bila baca contraindication, mereka yg ada risiko kanser thyroid tak dibenarkan pakai.
My personal view, jangan bergantung lama kepada munjaro, ubah gaya hidup atau nanti kurus berpenyakit.
@NazXyz101@meinmokhtar synthetic = dibuat dengan configurasi YANG SAMA di dalam makmal.
Kalau ada org cipta najis synthetic, adakah rasa, bau dan kesan takkan sama dengan najis?
FDA mmg approve sbb ni trillion dollar business, tapi pengguna wajib tahu. Ramai je my friend guna,but awareness is the key
@meinmokhtar Kalau belum kena, teruskan guna dulu sebab mmg FDA kata ianya selamat.
Tapi, kalau dah kena kanser, pastikan INFORM sebab potensi bisa mounjiro itulah antara sebabnya.
Banyak research tapi semua ongoing, dan pharma tak minat nak tahu sebab bisnes ni booming
@meinmokhtar Maunjiro (sejenis protein yg diekstrak dari bisa lizard), dicucuk utk slowkan pergerakan makanan dlm perut (supaya rasa kenyang lebih lama). Ada kesan kpd sel badan sbb kita cucuk bisa dlm badan, sebab tu kanser maybe meningkat terutamanya thyroid.Kalau dah kena kanser, sharelah.