Whenever a gay man says "I'm gay but im not one of THOSE gays" it upsets me because whats wrong with other gay men? They arent the devil because theyre feminine, physically weaker or are more sassy
I stopped chasing relationships when I realized being alone was a lot more peaceful than constantly trying to convince someone to choose me. The right person wonโt require endless chasing, guessing, or proving your worth. Focus on building a life you enjoy, and let relationships be a bonus, not the goal.
Black gay bars are closing while everybody profits off Black queer culture. Ballroom gets copied, our slang gets recycled, our aesthetics get monetized, & suddenly non-Black people are the face of โBlack gayโ events.
How do u consume the culture but erase the people who built it?
I always hated the "veterans only get 1 day" argument against pride month, like bitch you don't see me walking around everywhere demanding a fะฐggot discount
Before pride month starts im just gonna say this:
-menโs mental health month is in November
-straight pride isnโt a thing. Nobody has ever been oppressed or killed for being straight
-veterans get 2 months. May and November
So do some research before complaining :)