I will marry a man who inquires about my thoughts, feelings, and ideas regularly and genuinely.
I will marry a man who gives me a life where nothing is unattainable.
I will marry a man that my family loves and whose family loves me.
I will marry a God fearing man.
It is a man's job to set the TONE in a relationship. A woman feeds off his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She CAN'T feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.
i don't care how INDEPENDENT and self sufficient she might seem. treat her well. surprise her with things. take her out. court her. pursue her. she's only an alpha woman because she has to be, not because she wants to be
“Let me ask my partner” is actually deeply healthy in many scenarios and shows that the person values the input of their significant other. Y’all just don’t want to consider someone else and think being hyper independent and “you don’t own me!!!” Leads to a successful PARTNERship. Yes it’s dumb and can be controlling when it comes things like outfits or something. But if you aren’t ready to genuinely consider someone else’s feelings and input on an activity or event or whatever that realistically will impact you both, you aren’t ready for an adult partnership.
No one is too busy for the person they love. If they don't call, text, or message, don't chase them, mind your own business, and leave them alone because their lack of effort is their lack of interest & no message is a message. Prioritizing people who prioritize you is self-care.