I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.
I’m very heavy on reciprocation. you reach out, I reach out. you’re distant, I’m distant. you check on me, I check on you. you’re inconsistent with me, so am i. you spoil me, i spoil you. I will not overplay my part. I deal with people exactly how they deal with me.
The kindest thing literature does is remind you that your peculiar little feelings have always existed. Someone, in some century, was equally confused by love, bored by society, tired of performing, and hungry for meaning.
Saw a mans post that said “Y'all can keep the girls that wanna go 50/50. l like mine showing me hauls of what she bought with my card” and all I can say is, may that type of man find me!
the healthiest thing a woman can do for her nervous system is to become a princess of the universe and allow herself to be taken care of by the cosmic forces.
quit acting all surprised when people compliment you, look up to you, love your work, or see you in a good way. YES, you are desirable. YES, you are good. YES, your work speaks for itself. YES, people see your potential & your power. now it’s time for you to believe it!!!
The most powerful thing you can do for yourself is become the most fittest, healthiest, intelligent, successful, wealthy, beautiful version of yourself.
PLEASE romanticize your life, take pretty pictures, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, buy yourself presents, do whatever you want, be happy. this is your life, don’t let anyone take it from you
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone.
you just gotta have an unshakable faith that the universe is constantly working towards your ultimate happiness and fulfillment, and fear will begin losing its suffocating grip on your life. you are deserving of a worry-free existence.
how to attract more abundance?
every time you pay for something (bill, debt, simple things like coffee), always feel grateful and give thanks for being able to afford such things. don’t say “ugh, another expense.” rather, be thankful because it’s proof you’re provided for.