I hate a tit for tat relationship. If you feel slighted or hurt, talk to me. Don’t be petty and childish and try to do something to get back at me. Because how you claiming you down for me and then want to hurt me??? That’s a huge red flag
I dream of never being called strong again. I’m exhausted by strength. I want support. I want love. I want understanding. Not patted on the back for how well I take a hit or how often.
Sometimes I feel so weird explaining to someone how inconsiderate they were in a situation. It’s like if you didn’t feel yourself wildin, idk what’s left to say.
once in college this girl got drunk and spilled her guts to me about how horrible her boyfriend was and how he was bad in bed and always flirted with other girls in front of her. anyway now they’re engaged <3
i don't think cis guys realize how much power they can shift in a conversation just by casually telling their friends "that's fucked up, man" when someone says something bigoted