We can't date casually. We can't casually have sex. There's nothing casual about being in my space. I'm a real lover.
There is nothing casual about my intimacy. There is nothing casual about my heart.
One thing about me.. I’ll never ask why someone didn’t acknowledge me.. milestones, birthdays, congratulations, whatever. Just think about how that sounds: asking someone why they didn’t care enough. I take s* for what it is. My dignity > chasing explanations.
cater your availability to those that feed your soul in ways that leave you feeling whole so you never have to deplete yourself for people that require you to show up without bringing anything to the table in return.
sometimes your darkest moments need to happen so they can reveal who is worth keeping around once you’re able to turn the lights back on in your life, sometimes you need to go through your lows to see who accepts you for you and not conditionally based on your circumstances.
People love creating narratives of who they “believe” you are. They’ll study you, just to be wrong every time. Let them be consumed with their own stories and fantasies of who you’re not. Keep moving to the flow of your own authentic version and vibration. You know you.
STOP LYING ON PEOPLE‼️ Ain't nobody did nothing to you‼️ You felt some kinda way and instead of communicating you switched up, ran ya mouth, built a team & convinced them to feel like YOU 🙄 Now all of y'all are mad cause that person caught on, felt y'all vibe & is choosing to
connections that recognize that your low phases are not your defining moments but temporary destinations until you find your way back home to you again, connections that give you ample space and as much time as you need to find your bloom, connections like this.