Yes that’s why i never wanna hear that shit about “my grandma and grandad were together forever/marriages used to last” YEAH GRANNY WASNT ALLOWED TO HAVE A SAVINGS ACCOUNT OR GET AN APARTMENT ON HER OWN. SHE WAS A PRISNA!
Be selfish. Leave at 5pm. Take all your PTO. Ignore work calls on the weekend. Never take your work home. Jump to better jobs. Start side hustles. Always look out for yourself, FIRST.