I seen on tik tok this girl made a list of non sexual things men do that turns her on.. my fav on her list was “ a man being aware so i can be oblivious” and YES. When I’m with you, i don’t wanna have a care in the world, cause i know you got us!
LET ME BE CLEAR.... for years I let everything slide - BUT now I have boundaries. You don't get to talk down to me. You don't get to smile in my face & secretly despise me. You don't get to throw jabs at me "innocently" through jokes. You don't get to use me. One thing about it,-
Y’all wanna know who I’m jealous of??? Those black girls that dye their hair like 30 colors and yet their hair is still full, long, AND healthy. THATS who need to come off the secrets.
that i never give myself any grace. i'm so hard on myself when i make a mistake that i never let myself live it down, i constantly play the situation in my mind over and over and i constantly beat myself up over it.
flights are high. hotels are high. airbnbs are outrageous. transportation is high. public transportation is piss poor. food & produce are high. concert tickets are insane. hidden fees are predatory.
& the avg American is barely making $12/hr.
when india said she just wanna be by herself and just love on her self because she bring herself peace and the only time that peace is interrupted is when a guy come along … i really felt that!
i don't know who needs to hear this but mishandling people, then avoiding communicating with them is not protecting your peace; it's avoiding accountability. y'all love to use those terms to mask being shitty ass individuals and that's not okay. time to grow the hell up tbh.
I’ll never be mean to another girl first cus i know how much we go through but soon as you think you finna be petty wit or come fw me bitch imma bully you like I’m Angelica off the rugrats